In the coming months I will answer the questions you see below, five at a time. I will link the questions to the blog in which the question is answered. I may add questions to the list as I go.

Self-reflection Questions

  1. What are your nicknames?
  2. What fills up your heart to bursting level?
  3. Which three things did you not have or do as a kid that you wish you did?
  4. What song was nr 1 on your date of birth?
  5. Can you handle the sight of blood?
  6. How quickly do you jump to conclusions about people?
  7. Which physical feature defines you?
  8. What is your star sign?
  9. What are you good at and what would you like to improve?
  10. If you could choose anyone living or dead, who would you choose to go on a roadtrip with?
  11. What are you bad at and how does that influence your life?
  12. What type of worker are you?
  13. How much sleep do you need?
  14. Are you rich?
  15. What is a controversial opinion you have?
  16. What world famous monument do you have no interest in visiting?
  17. What culinary trend do you dislike the most?
  18. Can you handle tickling?
  19. What’s your definition of success?
  20. What part of your culture are you most and least proud of?
  21. Who are the most important people in your life?
  22. Have you ever had your heart broken?
  23. What is your guilty pleasure?
  24. Which things would you wan to save from your burning house?
  25. What 3 qualities do you search for in a boyfriend?
  26. Which 3 traits define you?
  27. What did you think was silly until you tried it?
  28. Which three life lessons would you want your children to know / understand / live by?
  29. Would you want to live forever?
  30. Would you go to outer space, if given the chance?
  31. Would you go to a naturalist camping / beach?
  32. What is society doing now that in 20 years will be laughed at and ridiculed?
  33. What do you hope to achieve in your professional life?
  34. Do you ever cheat?
  35. Do you enjoy museums? and so, which kind? Do you have a favorite?
  36. What would you NOT do for 5 million dollars?
  37. How often do you curse?
  38. Do you like hiking / taking long walks?
  39. What’s the worst and best thing about being female?
  40. Are you an animal person?
  41. Are you sporty?
  42. What were your favorite subjects at school?
  43. How would you describe the balance in your life?
  44. What are your favorite flavors?
  45. How many kids do you (wish to) have?
  46. Are you a good swimmer?
  47. What three events made the biggest impact on who you are today?
  48. How many pairs of shoes do you have?
  49. Have you ever broken someone’s heart?
  50. What did you want to be as kid?
  51. Have you ever broken a bone?
  52. Have you ever stolen something?
  53. Do you smoke?
  54. What cartoons did you watch as a child?
  55. Have you ever used drugs?
  56. Have you ever had a movie scene make you cry?
  57. Did you ever hit someone?
  58. Are you close with your parents?
  59. Have you ever been in prison?
  60. What are the top 3 things you use your computer for?
  61. How do you move around?
  62. Have you ever witness a natural disaster at close hand?
  63. Which family member do you look the most like?
  64. What is your favorite place in Holland?
  65. Which movie genre do you enjoy the most?
  66. Do you collect anything?
  67. What activities do you remember doing the most as a kid?
  68. Are you a religious or spiritual person?
  69. Do you have any bad habits?
  70. What was the best birthday gift you ever got?
  71. What was your favorite toy as a kid?
  72. Do you watch sports on TV?
  73. What song always puts you in a good mood?
  74. Do you wear jewelry?
  75. How would you describe your sense of humor?
  76. What advice would you give your younger self?
  77. Which country’s cuisine is your fave?
  78. Which is your favorite super hero?
  79. Who or what is your nemesis?
  80. What childish thing do you still enjoy?
  81. What movie can you watch over and over and never get tired of?
  82. What long shot have you taken that really paid off?
  83. What is the most useless thing you know how to do?
  84. How many phones have you broken or lost?
  85. What is something that people think you would never do but you have?
  86. Which historical figure wasn’t as amazing as most people think they were?
  87. What are you tired of hearing about?
  88. What do you think you know a lot about but probably don’t?
  89. What’s your worst customer service story, either as the customer or as the employee?
  90. Who has completely lost your respect?
  91. What pets do you (wish to) have?
  92. If you died today, what would your greatest achievement be?
  93. Who are some people you only met once but they left a big impression on you?
  94. How regularly do you see your best friends?
  95. What happens after we die?
  96. What traits really turn you off in a person?
  97. Is there anything you love but never share with anyone because you want to keep it all to yourself?
  98. Are you good at keeping secrets?
  99. What do you think of tattoos? Do you have any?
  100. Talk about some of the interesting people you have met while traveling.


  1. Overworking or out of a job
  2. Pizza or pasta
  3. Hard Truth or White Lie
  4. knitting or crochetting
  5. Starters or Dessert
  6.  Introvert or extravert
  7.  Liberal or conservative
  8. Nature or nurture
  9. Online or offline
  10. Snowboard or Surfboard
  11. Big Mac or Whopper
  12. Flip-flops or hiking boots
  13. Employee of Employer
  14. hamburger or hotdog
  15. cat or dog
  16. cruise ship or sailboat
  17. singing or dancing
  18. Sunny Beach or Snowy Mountain
  19. Mashed or baked potatoes
  20. Shower or bath
  21. School or work
  22. Caravan or Tent
  23. Sweet or Sour
  24. Night or Day
  25. Long hair or Short hair
  26. Too hot or too cold
  27. Candy or Chocolate
  28. Backpack or tote bag
  29. lake or swimming pool
  30. mouse or rat
  31. shopping or reading
  32. ketchup or mustard
  33. coffee or tea
  34. pen or pencil
  35. barbecue or oven
  36. breakfast or dinner
  37. Netflix or YouTube
  38. Phone Call or Text
  39. Toast or Eggs
  40. Cardio or Weights
  41. Facebook or Twitter
  42. Ice Cream Cone or Snow Cone
  43. Mobile Games or Console Games
  44. While walking: Music or Podcasts
  45. iOS or Android
  46. Swimming or Sunbathing
  47. High-tech or Low-tech
  48. Big Party or Small Gathering
  49. New Clothes or New Phone
  50. Rich Friend or Loyal Friend
  51. Nice Car or Nice Home Interior
  52. What’s worse: Laundry or Dishes
  53. Jogging or Hiking
  54. Glasses or Contacts
  55. Hamburger or Taco
  56. Couch or Recliner
  57. Online Shopping or Shopping in a Store
  58. Receive: Email or Letter
  59. Passenger or Driver?
  60. Most important in a partner: Intelligent or Funny
  61. Blue or Red
  62. Money or Free Time
  63. Amusement Park or Day at the Beach
  64. At a movie: Candy or Popcorn
  65. Toilet paper: Over or Under
  66. Cups in the cupboard: Right Side Up or Up Side Down
  67. Coke or Pepsi
  68. Cup or Thermos
  69. Meat or Vegetables
  70. International Vacation or a New TV
  71. Save or Spend
  72. Honesty or Other’s Feelings
  73. Ocean or Mountains
  74. Horror Movie or Comedy Movie
  75. City or Countryside
  76. Soup or Sandwich
  77. Beer or Wine
  78. Camping or Binge Watching Shows at Home
  79. Working Alone or Working in a Team
  80. Dine In or Delivery
  81. Sweater or Hoodie
  82. Comic Book or Comic Strips
  83. Motorcycle or Bicycle
  84. Book or eBook
  85. When sleeping: Fan or No Fan
  86. Ninjas or Pirates
  87. Incense or room freshener
  88. Seeing or Hearing
  89. Britney or Christina
  90. Donald Duck or Daffy Duck
  91. Tidy room or messy room
  92. Flowers or wine?
  93. Girly girl or Tomboy
  94. Honey or Syrup
  95. Sauna or Hot tub?