Happy new year everyone! Hope you had a good transition from old to new and that you are ready for what 2016 has in store for you. If you’re not ready yet, you will have another chance to start with a clean slate soon, when the new year starts according to the Chinese (goodbye sheep, hello monkey!).
So, using my new mind cleanup tool, I want to glance back on 2015.
- My current job gives me such a strong feeling of belonging that I can’t imagine ever having felt insecure about the decision to apply (which I totally did)
- I am so lucky with my bf, who’s love I never doubt, even (especially?) when he says I’m an idiot (because it’s usually exactly what I needed to hear on that particular moment).
- Climate agreement achieved!
- My parents’ dog was hit by a car and died
- My family can no longer be together in the same house. All though the decision of the family members in question to take no more shit from each other and just deny the other’s existence has brought some peace into the equation, it is a very sad status quo for many of us; my father in particular.
- Terror & mass-shootings have become matters of “When” rather than “If”.
- The hypocritical and nearsighted response of the Western world to the Paris attacks, completely ignoring the equally real suffering, pain and losses of life elsewhere bummed me out big time.
- The Dutch soccer team did not manage to qualify for the European Championships, despite reaching the final in the World Championship 2 years prior.
Things I tried to ignore
- Everything Trump
- Bruce’s transition to Caitlyn and the world’s revelry about this
- I-am-this-and-that declarations on social media.
- The guilt I feel about my ecological footprint
- My laundry
Music related thoughts
- I still think it’s a pity Grooveshark quit and do not feel Spotify fully fulfills my musical needs.
- There is a lot of pretty awesome sounding electronic music being made these days! To name a few: C2C, EZA, Jarryd James, Låpsley, Alt-J, Oh Wonder.
- Ariana Grande is an amazing singer and much more talented than I was prepared to admit, until I saw this.
- Adele’s comeback was so ginormous when it comes to view counts and online viralcy that the actual music never really lived up to it for me. She’s incredibly sweet and charming and I love that she is part of current day music, but I definitely don’t have her album on re-play.
- Rugby is really fun to watch!
- If I can’t kill and prepare an animal myself, I should become a vegetarian.
- I am a privileged person. I don’t need to feel guilty about this but consciousness is vital.
- It’s not always up to me to solve conflicts between people. Even more so, removing myself from the equation as self-appointed mediator can actually be the solution in some cases.
- I am not an atheist in the sense that I believe what has been scientifically proven. I leave room for spiritual ideas and am willing to admit that science is also “just a theory” in many senses. However, I am very strongly nonreligious. Stronger even, I am anti religious, unpopular as it may be to say so.
- Blaming DNA for any shitty traits you (or I) may have is a poor excuse and does not give you permission to be an asshole (or a drunk or whatever).
- Doing a month long a-blog-a-day challenge is actually really hard.
- Summer with my brothers and kids
- Learning how to dive and becoming PADI open water certified
- The opening of the Engelandvaardersmuseum in Noordwijk
- I have a shrimp allergy and I’m sick of it.
- Couscous tastes so much better the next day!
- Peanut butter cups are actually very easy to make and, imo better than the supermarket kind.
- I met a Canadian girl during a food tour in Ljubljana (amazing city btw) who, when I asked what the difference between lager and pilsner is, illustrated this with some common knowledge from “back home”: Lager is like having sex in a canoe; it’s fucking close to water.
- I really don’t like potatoes.
- 2016 is going to be awesome, have a good one!